We've seen it on TV, heard it on the radio or even talked about it with our friends. But what is friends with benefits?
Friends with benefits is like having a so called bf/gf. You go out on dates without the commitment. A guilt free flirtatious relationship. Sometimes it involves sex. (see http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AsPSy1xZuS4Ta5zqpc2kMakjzKIX;_ylv=3?qid=20070627111753AAI05bC).
For others, this is a great idea if you're not yet sure if you want a steady relationship with commitment.
A single person usually gets involve in this type of relationship. But does it work out? Like leading to a more serious relationship. The answer is NO.
Often times, one of them gets emotionally attach to the other person and end up getting hurt.
If you're looking for a commitment, this is not the relationship for you.
You deserve to be in the arms of someone who would treasure and love you.
You deserve to be happy... don't settle for a make believe love/relationship. If he truly loves you he would have made the first move to make your relationship official.